how to explain your actions ..

well, sorry for the long days of no new blogs, been busy with work :(

anyway, a simple test will show that most people have the same kind of reaction when it comes to this kind of issue. simply put, how do most people overcome this issue is to avoid the problems on hand. honestly even i also made the same mistakes in the past. i will choose to do more duty and even not going home and avoiding the places that we have been to before. why?? cause i just dun want to be reminded of the memories of me and her.

have anyone ever thought instead of thinking that breaking up is a problem or an issue, why not think there it is an end to a problem. when you encounter problems in your relationship and it leads to a break up, i think it put an end to the problem and not a problems itself. i agree that it might be hurtful, it might be painful, but think of it in a another way, it end the suffering of the other party, you might have been hurting her/him when you are in this relationship with him/her. i cannot say anything from a girl's point of view cause i am after all a guy, but i can say that from a neutral party point of view, sometime when i see my friends having problems in their relationship, i would advice them to let go. the highest level of love is not to hold the person you love in your arms, it is to know when to let go when the time have come. till date i am still looking for the one that can always support me in whatever i do to be there when i needed her, but honestly there is no such a person there, and you have to learn that this is a fact. most couple are mostly working adults, it is impossible for the other party to be always waiting for you, even if there is, how long will the other party be willing to wait and wait ??

hmm, guess that is all for today's food for though. good night .. :)