well, let's move on to the guys .. :)

ok this post will be mainly on guys so gals might have a better understanding..

well, let start with the types of guys i know. there are the persistent, sly, confident, shy, die die must try kind and also the don't dare to approach kind.

i think i belong to both the shy and die die must try de. for one i am shy when making new friends, but when i know that there is this one gal that i like, i will approach her and ask her whether will she be willing to accept me no matter what. somehow when i know that my feelings are positive towards this person, i will let her know my feelings even knowing that i might get rejected in the end. people around me ask me why, i tell them if you never ask you will never know. why bother about what others tell you ?? even if they are close with the one that you love, why give up when they tell you too .. don't you even for one second stop and think that they might like the person that you like as well, and they are asking you to give up so that they have one competitor left ? this are the sly kind, and i have met one before, they told this friend of mine that he does not like this gal and will never go for her, but in the end, he got together with that gal. my friend was so heart broken. and somehow i realise that gals have a tentency to go for this kind of guys. at times i just wanna tell them to open up their eyes and see instead going with their feelings. this are the guys that will change their attitude towards you after a long period of time being together with you. so please be careful.

other than that there are this group that are shy and don't dare to even try kind. well, i can say that they eventually do after a long long period of time. but all i want to say is that they might have miss the window of opportunity. there is this friend of mine, that always drag and drag. i dunno why they always do what they did, but i wanted to tell them so much that if there is this person that are willing to go out with you often and always come looking for you when she is troubled, and if at the same time you have the right feelings for her, pls try. don't ever think that trying means that you might lose a friend. yes there is a chance that you might lose one, but think of it this way, there is a chance that you can get a companion to share your life with. which is more important ??

well, i am sleepy.. hope to post soon ..